I questioned him about the Harridan and we agreed that I didn't have to go to the wedding (read I wouldn't be caught dead where I'm not wanted!) so it becomes a non issue.
The real issue is she will try this at every turn, I know how she operates. The martyr. The "see what I go through..." Stupid cow doesn't realise that it would be a cold day in Hell before I wouldn't go to my sons wedding! I couldn't care less if Satan was to be there! I'd ignore him! So I figure her threats were empty; if not, well she truly is a selfish bitch.
So after we discussed this, the Squeeze sat on my knee for a bit of game playing... But I couldn't get into it like usual. It had nothing to do with our discussions re the Harridan... With him sitting there on my knee, I felt like a ventriloquist! And he; he was the dummy.