He likes to bend the truth in some way. Usually whatever makes him out to be the "can't live without/got to have" partner. And in reality, he is the "please live without/got to get rid of" partner.
Everything in our lives is separate. We go halves in everything. I wouldn't expect to go anywhere without paying for it. That is the way we began about twenty years ago; and we are still doing it.
He often forgets that this is the way we live, to the point of coming out with the odd fabulous one liner! e.g.: Our trip to Vietnam last year... He commented in passing yesterday that he paid for me. I thought; what the fuck? Where did all my money go then!!
So, I pointed out that I paid for my return flight.
I paid half for the hotel we stayed in.
I purchased food and drink, as did he.
Doesn't that therefore mean, I went halves?
He was silent. I still don't think I convinced him... I'm just a free rider!
Because he thought it; it becomes the truth! He likes to invent stuff, in his mind. Whatever is more palatable to his sensibilities. So rather than I am paying for myself, he decides that he paid for me! Took me on an all expenses paid trip to Vietnam!! Out of the goodness of his little black heart!!!
Bloody idiot.
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