Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Anzac Day Isn’t Your Stage

There’s always one.

While thousands stand quietly at dawn, remembering people who actually sacrificed something, someone like Eli Toby decides this is his moment. Not to reflect. Not to respect. Just to make a lot of loud noise.

Booing a Welcome to Country at an Anzac Day service isn’t brave. It’s not a statement. It’s not even controversial. It’s just attention-seeking dressed up as conviction.

If you’ve got an issue, there are a hundred ways to express it like an adult. Standing in the dark interrupting a memorial isn’t one of them.

Anzac Day isn’t about you.

And the fact that you think it is, tells everyone exactly who you are.

Everyone Has Anxiety Now (Apparently)

At this point, breathing incorrectly is probably a diagnosis.

Some people have anxiety. Real anxiety. The kind that doesn’t clock off, doesn’t negotiate, and doesn’t care if you’ve got things to do. It’s exhausting, private, and very real.

And then there’s… whatever this is.

A mixture of not getting you own way; and sulking about it. 

Didn’t get what you wanted? Anxiety. Had to speak in public? Anxiety. Felt uncomfortable for five whole minutes? Better label it before it escalates into personal growth.

We’ve taken normal human friction — nerves, rejection, awkwardness — and medicalised it. Because apparently the worst thing that can happen to a person now is feeling slightly uneasy.

It’s not anxiety. It’s life!

But life doesn’t get much airtime anymore. It doesn’t come with sympathy, validation, or a neat little label you can post about. So, everything gets upgraded into something more serious than it is.

And the more we do that, the less anything means.

Because when everything is anxiety, the people who actually have it get drowned out by the noise of people who just don’t like being uncomfortable.

One is a condition.

The other is a low tolerance for inconvenience.

And pretending they’re the same doesn’t make you self-aware.

It just makes you a bit loud.

Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Can't Blog. Vietnam.

I'm never lost for words. I've always got something to say. However, next week I'm off to Vietnam so I intend to be living, rather than writing! The weather ranges from 25-32 and it's humid.

Better than last year. I went off with such enthusiasm. My partner had organised a dentist for himself (it is so cheap over there... And great clinics too!) but I had plans! I was going to site see everything!

Since we were staying in Denang, I wanted to go on the Hue Citadel tour which uses authentic trains with singers and lute players on board! My sister had gone the year before and said it was a must! So off we go... The train boards and it curves its way up through the mountains. There is actually a cliff on one side, and the views! Ocean. Beautiful clear ocean! 

Well, that was what it was supposed to be like.

Instead, we were pelted by rain. So much of the trip, you couldn't see out of the windows as it was slanting! Pounding so much it became dangerous, so they cancelled the trip back. 

We were staying overnight at this little groovy hotel in this tiny town, which we couldn't see because of the rain. Even if you put a rain proof poncho on, you couldn't see a foot in front of you. 

The next morning, we had to get a ride back to Danang. And so, we get into the back seat of a station wagon the girl on the front desk had arranged for us and within five minutes were hail Mary-ing! He drove like a bloody maniac. Through the slanted rain, going about 100 miles per hour. I don't know if anyone has been to Vietnam or not, but there are no highways! Just skinny roads!

I put translator on my phone and asked him to slow down as I was feeling sick. He did for about 5 minutes and then back up to what he was going! At the end of the trip, we were white. 

Suffice to say I enjoyed the first 2 days, after that, I was never going back to Vietnam again!!!

So I am giving it another chance. Two weeks of sun and pool.

Monday, April 27, 2026

This Is What Happens - Everything Becomes a Spectacle...

A formal dinner filled with politicians, journalists, cameras, and speeches is meant to look like control. It’s meant to project order, importance, and a sense that everything is exactly where it should be. Then someone brings a gun, and all of that collapses instantly. Who are we kidding. They all would be packing a pistol!

At the White House Correspondents’ Dinner, a gunman forced his way toward one of the most heavily guarded events in the United States, firing shots and triggering panic as people scrambled for cover and security rushed officials out.

The target wasn’t random. Authorities believe he was aiming for Donald Trump (good on him I say).

Within seconds, the entire performance was stripped back to what it really was - just a room full of people reacting to something they couldn’t control. This is the part people will miss. They’ll argue politics, assign blame, pick sides, and push whatever narrative suits them. But this wasn’t just about one man. It was about the environment that made something like this feel almost inevitable.

Look at what that event actually is. A room packed with power, media, ego, and attention, all feeding off each other. Politicians performing for journalists. Journalists performing for the public. Everyone pretending it’s about democracy while quietly enjoying the spotlight that comes with it. It’s theatre, carefully staged and endlessly repeated.

And when everything becomes theatre, reality doesn’t just interrupt - it tears through it.

That contrast is the story. One moment it’s speeches and jokes. The next its fear, confusion, people hiding under tables in formal wear. It’s absurd, but it’s also revealing. It shows how thin the line is between the image of control and the reality underneath it.

The uncomfortable part is that this doesn’t shock people the way it should anymore. That’s the real problem. Not just that it happened, but that it fits so easily into the cycle. Outrage. Coverage. Debate. Repeat.

They’ll talk about security failures, about who is responsible. But the deeper issue sits underneath that. You cannot keep turning politics into spectacle, outrage into currency, and attention into the goal, and expect it to stay contained. Eventually it spills over.

That’s what this was. Not just a crime. A consequence of something that has been building for a long time.

And the worst part is how predictable the aftermath will be. Endless discussion, endless analysis, and then a slow drift back into the same patterns that created the conditions in the first place.

Everyone will talk about it.

No one will learn from it.

Saturday, April 25, 2026

Day of Rest

Today I'm off to Melbourne to do the step Mum thing! 

I'm sure I can have a day of rest. If it's good enough for Jesus, I guess it's good enough for me!